Executive Support / Confidential Advisory Services

Confidential Advisory Services

Executives should never feel alone.

Our Advisory Services for Executives (ASE) is a confidential, bilingual service offered at no cost to executives. ASE provides a trusted, safe space to pause, reflect, and talk through complex professional situations — whether you are navigating change, uncertainty, difficult decisions, or simply need perspective.

At ASE, you are at the centre of the conversation. Our role is not to tell you what to do, but to listen carefully, help you make sense of your options, and support you in identifying a path forward that aligns with your values, goals, and well-being.

Our advisors are seasoned executives with deep public service experience and a wide range of lived and professional perspectives. We are passionate about giving back to the executive community and understand the realities, pressures, and responsibilities that come with executive roles.

ASE offers:

– confidential, one-on-one advisory conversations
– sounding board for complex or sensitive situations
– referrals to specialized resources, when appropriate
– guidance and connection to trusted sources of information

Whether you are facing a specific challenge or simply want a space to think things through, ASE is here to support you — confidentially, respectfully, and without judgment.

To contact ASE, please email: Nathalie Clément at nathaliec@apex.gc.ca.

What we can help you with

ASE is a confidential, trusted advisory service designed to support executives at all stages of their careers. We help executives — particularly those who are new to the EX cadre — navigate the system, understand their terms and conditions of employment, and make sense of what it truly means to be an executive in today’s public service.

Executives reach out to ASE when they need a knowledgeable sounding board: someone who understands the executive context, the rules, and the realities — and who can help them think through complex situations with perspective, clarity, and confidence.

Career reflection, transitions, and next steps

Deciding whether to stay in a role, move to another position or organization, or contemplate leaving the public service altogether can be complex and emotionally charged — especially in times of organizational change, restructuring, or uncertainty.

Whether you are proactively reflecting on your career, navigating a transition, or feeling pressure to “find a better fit,” we offer a confidential space to explore your aspirations, concerns, and options. We help you step back, reframe your inner dialogue, and think strategically about what comes next — at your pace, and on your terms.

Navigating conflict, difficult relationships, and workplace dynamics

Conflict is inevitable. When left unaddressed, it can escalate quickly, affecting your well-being, your team’s psychological safety, and your effectiveness as a leader.

Executives often reach out to discuss challenges related to conflict, abrasive behaviours, workplace tensions, or difficult relationships — including with their immediate supervisor. We help you think through practical, people-centred strategies to de-escalate situations, set boundaries, protect your reputation, and turn difficult moments into opportunities for learning and growth.

Harassment, violence, investigations, and high-stress situations

ASE provides a safe, confidential space for executives facing highly sensitive and emotionally demanding situations — including perceived harassment or bullying, being named as a respondent in a harassment or violence complaint or being subject to an administrative investigation.

We can help you understand the process, prepare for investigative interviews, reflect on responses to allegations, and navigate next steps with greater confidence. Where appropriate, we can also refer you to legal counsel or other specialized supports.

(Please note that APEX does not accompany clients to interviews or disciplinary hearings.)

People-centred leadership and managing through change

Executives increasingly reach out for guidance on effective people management in a complex, evolving environment. Topics often include building trust, fostering psychological safety, leading through uncertainty, and supporting teams during periods of fatigue, change, or transformation.

We are happy to explore your reflections on leadership, hybrid work, and the future of work — and help you navigate the human side of change while remaining aligned with your values and responsibilities as a leader.

Performance, talent conversations, and executive relationships

Strong performance and talent discussions are grounded in trust, clarity, and honest dialogue. We support executives in preparing for challenging conversations with supervisors or management teams, navigating executive performance and talent processes, and thinking strategically about feedback, positioning, and professional growth.

Nathalie Clément, Senior Advisor to Executives

Nathalie joined APEX’s Confidential Advisory Services in 2022 and offers free practical advice and guidance to public service executives, as well as a safe space for conversations.  She explores a wide range of options and opportunities to address executives’ concerns and works towards the best possible outcome.

She has over 25 years of experience in the public service and has been an executive since 2008 in a variety of roles in communications, human resources, change management and transformational leadership. Proud ambassador of wellness and mental health, she takes pride in developing and guiding her clients, so they become effective and conscious leaders at all levels, take care of themselves, and realize their full potential.

Nathalie cultivates a growth mindset and has recently completed her micro-certification in Psychologically Safe Leadership from University of New Brunswick.

Reach out to Nathalie at nathaliec@apex.gc.ca

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Virdei Milorin, Advisor to Executives

Virdei Milorin has over 25 years of experience in the federal public service, with a strong focus on executive leadership, people management, and organizational transformation. Most recently, he served as Executive Director for HR Regional Transformation at Public Services and Procurement Canada, where he led national initiatives related to employee well-being, including the Employee Assistance Program and Disability Management, while advancing the integration and modernization of HR services across the country.

Previously, he spent over 20 years with Global Affairs Canada as a diplomat and senior executive, including five postings abroad. His roles spanned financial management, human resources, consular services, security, and corporate governance in complex international environments. He also served as Director of Corporate Planning and Strategy and as a Senior Inspector, assessing whole-of-government operations worldwide. He joined APEX in December 2025.

Contact Virdei at: virdeim@apex.gc.ca

Martine Tanguay, Advisor to Executives

Martine brings extensive senior level leadership experience at both the regional and headquarters levels. She has led strategic and operational initiatives in key areas such as Indigenous affairs, social development, and health, and has significant experience in Indigenous and intergovernmental negotiations. Her expertise in mentorship programs and in managing complex government priorities is a valuable asset to APEX.

Throughout her career, Martine has demonstrated a strong commitment to people management and development. Recognized for her people centred leadership, she achieves sustainable results through innovation, collaboration, and partnership.

A strong advocate for workplace wellbeing, Martine places overall health and individual fulfillment at the core of her management approach. She actively supports employee growth by fostering inclusive, caring, and innovative work environments. A committed mentor, she has led numerous mentoring initiatives and holds teacher training in yoga and meditation. She is also a member of the Mentorat Québec network.

Contact Martine at: martinet@apex.gc.ca

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Guide on resources available across the federal public service to support executives throughout their careers. It aims to facilitate access to support, tools and training executives need to succeed, including resources to help executives take care of themselves and their teams, transition to a new role, and seek advice and guidance.

Onboarding Playbook

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People-Centric Leadership Approaches in Difficult Times

How are you doing in these challenging and uncertain times?

The 2021 APEX Executive Work and Health Study states 75% of Executives report high levels of burnout and research is clear that everyday behaviours contribute to burnout (or its prevention) at the organizational climate level.

Burnout is not an individual issue such as a character defect or personality issues. Burnout is job-related and situation specific. Much of the burnout research has found that organizational conditions and culture are the primary correlates of burnout. The key factor has been identified as work overload that occurs when job demands exceed human limits.

Every supervisor and manager (regardless of level) has a direct influence on the organizational climate which drives behavior within organizations. Organizational climates need to be aligned to organizational culture.

What does this mean for you, your team and your direct supervisor?

The current operating context and climate within the federal public service can prove to be very challenging for many executives, characterized by constant change, uncertainly, geo-political influence, and unsustainable operational realities following months of realignment or austerity measures in many departments and agencies.

We are all human and challenges in the workplace, high workloads, and high levels of uncertainty can impact us as people – whether we are conscious of it or not. If you catch yourself in a moment of self-doubt and defensiveness, being triggered, impatient or irritable, now is the time to pause, reflect and course correct.

Fostering psychologically safe, respectful, and inclusive workplaces

As an individual, explore concrete actions you can personally take to assess your own level of psychological safety in your current role:

  1. Prioritize self-awareness and self-reflection – are you behaving in alignment with your core values and the public service code of conduct?
  2. Take advantage of coaching and mentoring opportunities and leverage all resources available within and outside your organization, such as your ombuds office or conflict management practitioners, or the Workplace Strategies for Mental Health portal where they propose various approaches for people leaders. The Canada School of Public Service also offers job aids and other training available as part of the Learning Paths for Executives. Their tools for leading teams through change and uncertainty are excellent. And of course, never hesitate to reach out to our APEX confidential advisory services for executives.
  3. Be mindful of your own trauma and triggers that may be preventing you from being your authentic self at work.
  4. Learn about trauma and triggers for historically marginalized communities, and how systems and culture within the work environment may be contributing.
  5. Capitalize on your strengths and develop concrete plans to address areas of development or blind spots.
  6. Pay attention to your communication style and how you are advocating for what you need- ground yourself in your values and ensure alignment with your actions.

As a leader with people management responsibilities, explore concrete actions you can take to create psychological safety for your team:

  1. Adopt a coaching mindset with your employees.
  2. Model Vulnerability – Share what you are experiencing and learning, discuss struggles, successes and mistakes. Show the human side of yourself.
  3. Ask your employees what they need to succeed and act accordingly.
  4. Commit to learning and developing in the areas of psychological safety and trauma-informed approaches
  5. Undertake regular self-assessments of your leadership and communication styles to be fully aware of the impact you have on your team, and the climate you are creating as a leader.
  6. Learn how to give culturally sensitive constructive feedback that will not cause harm or distress.

Prioritize these approaches:

  1. Care about what your team feels and thinks. Listen to their fears, concerns and make room for debate and dissenting views.
  2. Make it a priority to develop personal connections with your team members.
  3. Learn how to Inspire with positive energy – when you feel overwhelmed or not yourself, pause, and try to reframe with positive intent.
  4. Provide context when feedback or ideas are rejected, or when employees ask why/how certain decisions were made.
  5. Regularly ask for upward feedback and adjust your style and approaches accordingly.
  6. Examine how you make decisions and look for opportunities to be more diverse and inclusive in your leadership and communications approaches.
  7. Work to identify and then confront your beliefs, blind spots, assumptions, and biases and develop alternate ways to behave and lead with more inclusion in mind.

 

“If you change the nature and quality of the conversations in your team, your outcomes will improve exponentially. Psychological safety is the core component to unlock this.”
– Amy C. Edmonston, Novartis Professor of Leadership and Management at the Harvard Business School.

Advisory Services People Management Wishes for 2024

Resetting your patterns of behaviour

Your leadership style and approach have a direct link to the climate you create, not only within your team, but with your colleagues and supervisors. Never underestimate the impact you have on people. As a leader, you have enough influence to affect someone’s career trajectory, ruin their entire experience on a team, affect their personal life, self-worth and confidence, and physical and psychological health.

The following are APEX’s top three wishes to eliminate patterns of behaviours that cause psychological distress and drama in the workplace, and abrasive leadership approach which does not align with the public service code of values and ethics.

  1. Know your derailers, triggers and stressors, and seek opportunities to self-improve
    Be curious and cultivate a growth mindset, know how to regulate and manage your emotions, and seek upward feedback regularly. There are also numerous training opportunities available for you to embark on a psychologically safe leadership journey.
  2. Know the climate you and your outer offices are creating
    Pay attention to current processes, structures, systems and leadership styles prevailing in your offices. Course correct if behaviours or processes do not align with your vision and core values as a leader. Address employees’ perceptions and request regular briefings with HR or ombuds offices to understand the health of your organization and leverage all data available.
  3. Focus on building relationships and trust
    Change your conversations to focus on values and ethics, rules of engagement, effective conflict management, breakthroughs and possibilities. You have the power and responsibility to transform a workplace into an environment where people feel safe, empowered, valued, grateful and motivated.

Eliminate words and actions that cause psychological distress in others: avoid blaming and shaming, leading from a place of fear, giving your employees the silent treatment if they disagree with you, cancelling their bilateral, punishing them if they provided constructive feedback or told you how they felt, communicating bad news via email or chat on a Friday afternoon or before someone goes on holidays, attacking someone’s integrity, core beliefs and values when different than yours, or dismissing their feelings and perceptions of reality.

Practical Guide for New Executives

More than 50 % of our clients are newly appointed or acting executives. Browse through this practical guide for tips, tools, and advice any experienced executives wish they had known when they joined the executive ranks!  We are happy to discuss specific content areas with you. Do not hesitate to reach out early in your new mandate.

Reflections and Best Practices

This guide was put together from the last 5 years of ASE Annual reports, the APEX  Executive Work and Health Survey results and various discussions with senior management across the public service

As we look at best practices, it is important to consider three levels: the individual level, executives who manage executives and the organizational level.

Mentoring Circles

For recent inductees to the executive ranks, the APEX-CSPS Mentoring Circles are small group mentoring events specifically designed for new executives. The sessions are a benefit for APEX members at no cost.

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