Executive Support / Confidential Advisory Services

Confidential Advisory Services

Executives should never feel alone! Hosted by APEX, this confidential, bilingual service is free of charge and provides a safe space for conversations. Our team will explore a wide range of options and opportunities to address your concerns and work towards the best possible outcome! YOU are the center of our attention!

We are passionate, caring seasoned executives with a wide range of expertise and lived experiences. We want to give back to the executive community and are here to provide you with confidential counseling, referrals to specialized resources and to point you to trusted sources of information.

To contact ASE please email Nathalie Clément.

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ASE is a one-stop shop for confidential advice, strategies, and referral to specialized services available to all executives on topics such as:

Career reflections and strategies

Making the choice to leave a position, department or agency can be a difficult decision, it is even more difficult when executives are facing career transitions or being encouraged to look for another position that would be considered a better fit. While change is not always easy, the possibilities of opening a new door can be exciting. Reach out to the team to discuss your career reflections, aspirations, and strategies in a safe and confidential space. We can be a great sounding board and give you additional tips, strategies, or insights, and help you reframe your inner dialogue.

Conflict management, including with your immediate manager

Conflicts are inevitable in the workplace and when not proactively managed at an early stage, it can escalate quickly, affect your wellness and mental health, the psychological health safety of your team, and your reputation as a leader. Learning how to strategically deal with conflicts, abrasive styles, and workplace irritants and turning those difficult situations into learning opportunities can be a game changer for you and can lead you to thrive rather than just survive in your role. Reach out early to the ASE team to discuss practical strategies and tips to deal with difficult situations, including conflict with your immediate supervisor.

Harassment, workplace violence, complaints, and investigations

The ASE team provides a safe space for executives facing very difficult situations and emotional distress when confronted with perceived harassment and bullying in the workplace, or when named as respondents in violence and harassment complaints or subject to administrative investigations. Reach out in total confidence and we will support throughout the process until the final report is sent to you. We can help you navigate through the process; help you prepare your responses to allegations and for the investigations interviews and refer you to legal counsel if appropriate.  It should be noted that APEX does not accompany clients to interview nor disciplinary hearings.

People management strategies

Reach out for broad advice, reflections and strategies related to effective people-centric management strategies like building a culture of care, trust, and psychological safety.  Discuss your views and reflections with us about the future of work and hybrid workplaces. Hybrid workplaces and future of work considerations are an amazing opportunity to transform the public service and the way we all work throughout our careers. You are in a position of influence, and we would be delighted to help you navigate the associated challenges and lead your teams through times of change.

Performance and talent management discussions

Reach out to us to leverage the power of relationships to enable strong, strategic, and authentic performance discussions with your supervisor and with your management team. At the heart of building a culture of care and psychological health and safety is building trust and setting the stage for open and honest two-way discussions that identify barriers to success and learning opportunities for growth and development. We can be a great sounding board when it comes to preparing you for challenging performance discussions and helping you navigate the performance management and talent management process and challenges for executives.

Retirement considerations

While retirement planning can be exciting and stimulating, it can also prove to be challenging, especially when you are considering retirement for health, mental health, or psychological safety reasons, or when you have a perception that you are forced into retiring early. Reach out to discuss strategies, options, and considerations.

Terms and conditions of employment

As an executive, do you understand your terms and conditions of employment? Do you have any concerns, fears, or perceptions you would like to discuss? Or perhaps you have a need for specific advice or interpretation? Reach out and if the ASE team doesn’t have the answer, we can access experts who will! We can also brief you on APEX advocacy and research work we are doing on your behalf to improve your working conditions.

Wellness and work-life integration

Work-life balance has always been important, but when the pandemic hit, everything changed. Many leaders were confronted with paradigm shifts, biases, beliefs and were struggling to find new ways of leading, thinking and working in a virtual working setting while juggling new and emerging priorities and stressors at work and at home. Some thrived, others struggled, some unfortunately collapsed and had a wake-up call and realized status quo was no longer an option…Which is your experience? Reach out to the team to have a discussion on setting boundaries, work-life integration tips and effective time management strategies and options.

Nathalie Clément, Senior Advisor to Executives

Nathalie joined APEX’s Confidential Advisory Services in 2022 and offers free practical advice and guidance to public service executives, as well as a safe space for conversations.  She explores a wide range of options and opportunities to address executives’ concerns and works towards the best possible outcome.

She has over 25 years of experience in the public service and has been an executive since 2008 in a variety of roles in communications, human resources, change management and transformational leadership. Proud ambassador of wellness and mental health, she takes pride in developing and guiding her clients, so they become effective and conscious leaders at all levels, take care of themselves, and realize their full potential.

Nathalie cultivates a growth mindset and has recently completed her micro-certification in Psychologically Safe Leadership from University of New Brunswick.

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Stéphane Lemieux, Senior Advisor to Executives

Stéphane joined APEX’s Advisory Services in 2024 from the Canada Revenue Agency. His professional career spanning more than 36 years has led him to occupy several leadership positions both within the Canadian armed forces and the public service. Having held an executive position since 2015, he has been able to put leadership development, mental health and resilience at the forefront in order to build effective teams capable of facing the multiple challenges of our complex operating environments.

Back Pocket Guide to Executive Supports

Guide on resources available across the federal public service to support executives throughout their careers. It aims to facilitate access to support, tools and training executives need to succeed, including resources to help executives take care of themselves and their teams, transition to a new role, and seek advice and guidance.

Onboarding Playbook

Ever felt lost or overwhelmed in a new role? Our new Onboarding Playbook: Rethinking Executives’ Integration aims to inspire with best practices and insights, ensuring every executive feels valued and ready to thrive from day one.

People-Centric Leadership Approaches in Difficult Times

How are you doing in these challenging and uncertain times?

The 2021 APEX Executive Work and Health Study states 75% of Executives report high levels of burnout and research is clear that everyday behaviours contribute to burnout (or its prevention) at the organizational climate level.

Burnout is not an individual issue such as a character defect or personality issues. Burnout is job-related and situation specific. Much of the burnout research has found that organizational conditions and culture are the primary correlates of burnout. The key factor has been identified as work overload that occurs when job demands exceed human limits.

Every supervisor and manager (regardless of level) has a direct influence on the organizational climate which drives behavior within organizations. Organizational climates need to be aligned to organizational culture.

What does this mean for you, your team and your direct supervisor?

The current operating context and climate within the federal public service can prove to be very challenging for many executives, characterized by constant change, uncertainly, geo-political influence, and unsustainable operational realities following months of realignment or austerity measures in many departments and agencies.

We are all human and challenges in the workplace, high workloads, and high levels of uncertainty can impact us as people – whether we are conscious of it or not. If you catch yourself in a moment of self-doubt and defensiveness, being triggered, impatient or irritable, now is the time to pause, reflect and course correct.

Fostering psychologically safe, respectful, and inclusive workplaces

As an individual, explore concrete actions you can personally take to assess your own level of psychological safety in your current role:

  1. Prioritize self-awareness and self-reflection – are you behaving in alignment with your core values and the public service code of conduct?
  2. Take advantage of coaching and mentoring opportunities and leverage all resources available within and outside your organization, such as your ombuds office or conflict management practitioners, or the Workplace Strategies for Mental Health portal where they propose various approaches for people leaders. The Canada School of Public Service also offers job aids and other training available as part of the Learning Paths for Executives. Their tools for leading teams through change and uncertainty are excellent. And of course, never hesitate to reach out to our APEX confidential advisory services for executives.
  3. Be mindful of your own trauma and triggers that may be preventing you from being your authentic self at work.
  4. Learn about trauma and triggers for historically marginalized communities, and how systems and culture within the work environment may be contributing.
  5. Capitalize on your strengths and develop concrete plans to address areas of development or blind spots.
  6. Pay attention to your communication style and how you are advocating for what you need- ground yourself in your values and ensure alignment with your actions.

As a leader with people management responsibilities, explore concrete actions you can take to create psychological safety for your team:

  1. Adopt a coaching mindset with your employees.
  2. Model Vulnerability – Share what you are experiencing and learning, discuss struggles, successes and mistakes. Show the human side of yourself.
  3. Ask your employees what they need to succeed and act accordingly.
  4. Commit to learning and developing in the areas of psychological safety and trauma-informed approaches
  5. Undertake regular self-assessments of your leadership and communication styles to be fully aware of the impact you have on your team, and the climate you are creating as a leader.
  6. Learn how to give culturally sensitive constructive feedback that will not cause harm or distress.

Prioritize these approaches:

  1. Care about what your team feels and thinks. Listen to their fears, concerns and make room for debate and dissenting views.
  2. Make it a priority to develop personal connections with your team members.
  3. Learn how to Inspire with positive energy – when you feel overwhelmed or not yourself, pause, and try to reframe with positive intent.
  4. Provide context when feedback or ideas are rejected, or when employees ask why/how certain decisions were made.
  5. Regularly ask for upward feedback and adjust your style and approaches accordingly.
  6. Examine how you make decisions and look for opportunities to be more diverse and inclusive in your leadership and communications approaches.
  7. Work to identify and then confront your beliefs, blind spots, assumptions, and biases and develop alternate ways to behave and lead with more inclusion in mind.

 

“If you change the nature and quality of the conversations in your team, your outcomes will improve exponentially. Psychological safety is the core component to unlock this.”
– Amy C. Edmonston, Novartis Professor of Leadership and Management at the Harvard Business School.

Advisory Services People Management Wishes for 2024

Resetting your patterns of behaviour

Your leadership style and approach have a direct link to the climate you create, not only within your team, but with your colleagues and supervisors. Never underestimate the impact you have on people. As a leader, you have enough influence to affect someone’s career trajectory, ruin their entire experience on a team, affect their personal life, self-worth and confidence, and physical and psychological health.

The following are APEX’s top three wishes to eliminate patterns of behaviours that cause psychological distress and drama in the workplace, and abrasive leadership approach which does not align with the public service code of values and ethics.

  1. Know your derailers, triggers and stressors, and seek opportunities to self-improve
    Be curious and cultivate a growth mindset, know how to regulate and manage your emotions, and seek upward feedback regularly. There are also numerous training opportunities available for you to embark on a psychologically safe leadership journey.
  2. Know the climate you and your outer offices are creating
    Pay attention to current processes, structures, systems and leadership styles prevailing in your offices. Course correct if behaviours or processes do not align with your vision and core values as a leader. Address employees’ perceptions and request regular briefings with HR or ombuds offices to understand the health of your organization and leverage all data available.
  3. Focus on building relationships and trust
    Change your conversations to focus on values and ethics, rules of engagement, effective conflict management, breakthroughs and possibilities. You have the power and responsibility to transform a workplace into an environment where people feel safe, empowered, valued, grateful and motivated.

Eliminate words and actions that cause psychological distress in others: avoid blaming and shaming, leading from a place of fear, giving your employees the silent treatment if they disagree with you, cancelling their bilateral, punishing them if they provided constructive feedback or told you how they felt, communicating bad news via email or chat on a Friday afternoon or before someone goes on holidays, attacking someone’s integrity, core beliefs and values when different than yours, or dismissing their feelings and perceptions of reality.

Practical Guide for New Executives

More than 50 % of our clients are newly appointed or acting executives. Browse through this practical guide for tips, tools, and advice any experienced executives wish they had known when they joined the executive ranks!  We are happy to discuss specific content areas with you. Do not hesitate to reach out early in your new mandate.

Reflections and Best Practices

This guide was put together from the last 5 years of ASE Annual reports, the APEX  Executive Work and Health Survey results and various discussions with senior management across the public service

As we look at best practices, it is important to consider three levels: the individual level, executives who manage executives and the organizational level.

Mentoring Circles

For recent inductees to the executive ranks, the APEX-CSPS Mentoring Circles are small group mentoring events specifically designed for new executives. The sessions are a benefit for APEX members at no cost.

More Resources and Tools

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